What we ask of you
We arrange meetings for sharing a meal, talking, and walking together. These rules keep that line where it is.
They apply equally to guests and partners. Whoever breaks one, the response is the same.
What this is not
It is not a promise of romance, it is not an overnight stay, and it is not a sexual service. If that is what you are looking for, please close this page. Having paid does not move this line.
Not allowed, for anyone
- Asking for or attempting physical contact
- Sexual remarks or gestures, or proposing a sexual meeting
- Meeting behind a closed door — a home, lodging, motel or private office
- Any meeting premised on staying the night
- Pressuring someone to drink, or getting them drunk and then suggesting going elsewhere
- Photographing, filming or recording without consent
- Posting the other person's photo, your conversation, or their personal details anywhere
- Dealing directly outside the site, or sending money privately
- Exchanging personal contact details outside the chat room
- Pressing for a home address, workplace, family — anything the meeting does not need
If any of these happens, you may end the meeting on the spot. Ending it costs you nothing.
For guests
- Be where you said, when you said. If you are running late, say so in the chat room.
- Accept a partner saying no. A refusal is not a broken promise.
- To stay longer, do not hand over cash — use the extend button on the booking screen.
- If you do not show up, 30% of what you paid is withheld.
For partners
- Your profile photo must be you, and current. Update it when you change.
- Hours you open must be hours you can actually take.
- Answer a booking request within 12 hours.
- Cancelling after confirming costs 30%, and doing it often limits your account.
- No contact details or outside links in your diary or profile.
What happens if a rule is broken
When a report comes in we read the chat and the booking record together. If it is confirmed, points accumulate, and what follows depends on the total.
- Warning — 3 points
- Suspended 7 days — 5 points
- Suspended 30 days — 8 points
- Permanently barred — 10 points
Points fall off after 180 days.
Sexual demands, coercion and violence bar an account immediately, regardless of points. Payouts stop and, depending on the case, we report it to the authorities. There is no refund in that case.
If something goes wrong
- During a meeting, press Get help on the booking screen. It reaches an administrator immediately, and the other person is not notified.
- If you would rather not meet someone again, add them to People to avoid. You disappear from each other's listings. People to avoid
- Afterwards, report it from the booking screen. A report stops the payout.
- For anything else, send us a message. Ask us